Not Running on Empty, Running On Sober: A Blogger Profile

We first met Christy after reading her post, My Grace is Gone (A Climb Out of Alcoholism). The sheer honesty and emotional intensity of the piece resonated with us — so much so — we not only bumped it to Freshly Pressed, we included it in our year-end Editors’ Picks — a collection of our favorite, most powerful posts from 2013. Christy sat down with us to tell us how she got started at Running on Sober, what blogging has meant to her in recovery, and a little about some new blogging projects she recently started.

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Tell us the story of how you started your blog, runningonsober.com.

One of my best friends actually pissed me off, that’s how. It’s actually kind of funny. See, I had my last alcoholic drink in May 2011, just two months after my mom died. (No, that’s not the funny part.) But I had all this time on my hands, and I didn’t know what to do with myself. So I did what many newly-sober people do — I threw myself into other activities: jelly bean eating, running, and blog reading.

My friend is pretty patient with me, but eventually she said, “I want you to strive to be less and less like her over time. And more and more like yourself.”

–Christy

Most of the blogs I was reading were about getting sober and about running — and my favorite blog was the perfect trifecta: a blog about a newly sober woman and her “act of returning to normal.” She wrote about the ups and downs of early sobriety, about the mountains of sugar our bodies crave, and about training for a half marathon. It was like she was in my head. I would email her blog posts to my friend and say, “I can relate, as usual!” Or, “This sounds exactly like me!”

My friend is pretty patient with me, but eventually she said, “I want you to strive to be less and less like her over time. And more and more like yourself.”

What my friend so wisely saw was that I needed to learn how to define myself, for myself. I needed to learn who I was — not to identify with or emulate somebody else. I was enough. I just had to find me again. After years of drinking and loss and grief, I had lost myself.

I was scared, and a little angry. But she was right, and I knew it. Less than a month later, and scared out of my mind, I published my first blog post.

How did you come up for the name of your blog, Running on Sober?

Much of that first month I contemplated a blog name. I was not blog-savvy. All I knew was what I was reading — a handful of running and sobriety blogs. So I thought…running…sobriety…sober…running…sober. And then the light bulb went on. I’m a music lover and a Jackson Browne fan, and one of my favorite songs is Running on Empty. But I’m not empty, I thought, I’m just sober. And not only did I have a name, I had a tagline too, and didn’t even know it at the time. Most of my friends and readers either call me Christy or RoS, though there are times I wish I would have named my blog Blitzed and Mixed Female so that I could be called BAMF. Hmmmm… maybe my next blogging project!

How (if at all) has blogging about alcoholism and recovery helped you along?

Christy and Spot.

Christy and Spot.

I haven’t had a drink since I began blogging. So while blogging is not the sole reason I have remained sober, it is no doubt one of the biggest reasons. Like many people first getting sober or clean, I battled with anxiety, being honest with others, feeling like no one else can possibly understand me, and issues of shame and anger and regret.

As I blogged and met other bloggers with similar backgrounds, I started feeling more comfortable sharing with others. Especially in the comment sections, because you can have a relaxed dialogue and get to know your fellow bloggers. So I began opening up and learned I wasn’t as unique as I’d believed. We all shared so many things in common.

I found if I was having a bad day, it helped to write about it — totally out of character for me, because I was not a complainer — and people just listened. They didn’t tell me what to do, they didn’t try to fix me, they just let me vent, and I found that so liberating! Now I vent and rant with the best of them… which is great, because I’m not keeping it in, and I’m not letting it poison my personal relationships or my health. I’m sure my husband is very grateful too!

Blogging plays a huge role in my sobriety, and is looped in with all the other tools in my sobriety toolbox; I like to say that sugar — lots of sugar — and recovery meetings helped me get sober, but that blogging, running, honesty, and not drinking are all current tools that help me stay sober. Okay, and sugar. Lots of sugar. We all have to pick our battles.

How have readers responded to your writing?

Bloggers can feel needlessly isolated — all you have to do is say, “Hi, I like you.” And nine times out of ten, you have formed an instant connection.

–Christy

Can I just go on the record here and say that the WordPress community freaking rocks? Seriously, they do. From the very first day I hit that first publish button I have had nothing but positive reactions. I think a lot of that has to do with the fact that I am not shy. I’ll talk to anyone. If someone visits my blog and leaves a comment, I’m going to say thank you in some way, usually via a direct response and often a visit. If I read an interesting post or visit a fun blog, I’m going to say “Hey, I like your style, thank you for this post — do you like Fritos?”

What, (if anything) has surprised you about the responses you’ve received?

One of the surprising reactions I’ve received is how open non-recovery (or “normal”) bloggers are to my personal stories. I’ve made many friends outside of the so-called sober blogs, and they have been some of my strongest supporters. I’m far from an addiction specialist or expert, so I don’t know the latest statistics, but I feel pretty confident saying that addiction touches more lives than not. Either via personal experience with substance abuse or even food, gambling, shopping, exercise, dieting, sex, smart phones…you name it, most of us are addicted to something. And if we’re not addicted, chances are someone in our family or close friends is, or chances are we grew up with it in our homes.

I wrote about losing my mom while I was struggling to quit drinking. My Grace is Gone (a Climb Out of Alcoholism) is hands-down the most brutal piece of writing I’ve done to date. I don’t know where the words came from. I sat down to write a post on running, and out poured my deepest regret and shame like someone had turned a fire hydrant on full blast inside of me. It was time. Apparently, the story was ready to be told.

People get it, they know conquering your demons is tough — even if they don’t always understand the complexities involved — they know it’s not easy. I’ve heard from so many people that have lost family members to their addictions. Someone told me, “I wish my brother had known about your blog. I wish he knew there was support out there. Maybe it would have made the difference. Maybe he wouldn’t have felt that suicide was his only way out.” Man… that knocked the breath out of me. And one of my loyal readers found me by chance when she was looking to better understand her daughter’s addiction struggles and wanted to support her daughter, because she was proud of her. That took my breath away too, because I lost my mom to cancer before she could see me thrive in sobriety, and one of my biggest hopes is that she is somewhere where she can see me and be proud of me.

Christy and her mom.

Christy and her mom.

I’m not sure I was ready to tell it, but sometimes you just have to jump. I was physically ill afterward and I cried non-stop for nearly a week, but I knew I had recorded something special. I knew this was the rickety fraying rope bridge I had to maneuver before I could move forward in my healing. I don’t know if you’re ever ready for that, but I also didn’t want to stay stuck in that pain and grief either. At least writing about it, I was owning it. I was shining a light on the darkest corner of my skeleton closet and telling those demons, “you don’t control me anymore.”

And a funny thing happened, once I took the power away from that shame and darkness, it slipped away on its own. It didn’t happen overnight, but it happened. And it happened with the love and support of the blogging community. I am forever grateful to WordPress for supporting me as I strive to reclaim my lost grace, and I am grateful for the chance to help others along the way.

This support and validation has encouraged me to put my face out there in my post This Face of Alcoholism and to pursue writing as a craft, just for the sheer joy of writing and storytelling. You’ve given me confidence to spread my wings, to get out of my comfort zone, to be “brave” (my theme word for 2014), and as my friend encouraged almost two years ago, to act more and more like myself. And to join Twitter (@Christys_Words) — finally! (Yeah, sorry about the frigid temperatures, that’s just hell freezing over.)

Which blogs in the recovery community do you feel a particular connection with, and why?

There are so many wonderful recovery bloggers out there — and just like all bloggers, recovery bloggers all have their own styles and voices too. The key is finding a few that click with you and complement your goals and personality. I’m still one of the old-fashioned bloggers with a blogroll; I find them to be extremely popular with recovery blogs, because when you’re thinking about getting sober, you don’t always know who to turn to. That’s why I keep my blogrolls and my resources page — so people can find the help they need.

I was lucky to meet a kindred spirit within the first month I began blogging: Kristen from ByeByeBeer. I don’t have a sister, but if I could choose one, it would be Kristen. I had only been blogging for two weeks when she found me, and we clicked instantly. We both share a love for running and sugar, we have about the same length of sobriety (just over 2.5 years), we both enjoy picking on Journey (the band and the word), we both fell madly in love with Darwin the Sherpa-coated IKEA monkey and immediately began plotting how we could extradite Darwin to the States. Plus Kristen inspires me to be a better writer.

Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your perfect offering. There is a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in.

—Leonard Cohen

Very early on, I also connected with Lisa from Sober Identity for her pragmatic and cognitive approach to sobriety, and also for her love of running and cookies. I owe so much to Michele of Mished-Up for helping me process the grief of losing my mom, for helping me call bullshit on my inner voice who, still, wants to hold me back from recovery and retreat to isolation.

I’d be remiss in not mentioning fellow blogger El Guapo from Guapola who has embraced many of us from the recovery circles. He is a strong advocate of Mental Health issues, and his musical library far exceeds even mine! Plus, Guapola is where I first went public with a personal photograph — granted it was from twenty years ago and I was wearing a prom dress and channeling Madonna, which now that I think about it, was a pretty damn gutsy thing to do. Or crazy. But I’m going to stick with gutsy.

You’ve recently started two new blogs. What inspired you to take your writing in a new direction?

I was the kid always highlighting passages in my books and tape recording songs from the radio so I could sit and transcribe the lyrics into a notebook. Instead of catching butterflies, I was catching words.

–Christy

Words for the Weekend (or just Words as we often call it), actually started as a lark soon after I began blogging. Like most readers and writers, I love words, I love the feelings words can inspire, I love how a timely quote or poem can comfort or motivate, but mostly I love finding the undercurrent that connects those feelings — those words — and I love recording those words for later inspiration.

I began sharing some of these collections over the weekend on my blog, because things seemed a little slower-paced, a little more quiet and reflective, and I wanted a place to share the words I had captured, initially for myself, but then others starting sharing and commenting, until eventually Words became a regular weekend feature with a life and readership of its own. Each weekend it matured and came more into its own, and I knew eventually it was going to need its own apartment, but I also knew it needed and deserved more attention than I could devote solely, so I waited and I kept that idea on the back burner.

At the same time, I was getting to know a fellow blogger, a talented writer and one of the best WordPress poets I’ve discovered, C.K. Hope (Jennie) of Daisies From Dust. I began sharing her poems in various volumes of Words, and in doing so, learned she too was a kindred word lover and collector.

We collaborate so well, we decided to take on an even bigger challenge — daily words. We launched a new WordPress site on January 1, a single daily Words selection, and the response has been very receptive and positive.

The new year also brings new blogging goals and plans for Running On Sober. Running, music, sobriety… it’s all continuing. But I’m also planning to share more of my creative writing and poetry, I’ve already joined in some of The Daily Post‘s Prompts and Writing Challenges and hope to encourage more to join me.


A few members of Christy’s local “community.” She has a cat, two dogs, three donkeys, and nine cows.

I also plan to open the doors up to new voices and perspectives. With Jennie, I plan to host a monthly “addiction in the family” feature, and with my friend Michelle Terry of MamaMickTerry, I hope to host a monthly “brave” feature. In both features, I’d like to invite others to share their stories of bravery or addiction from a family stand-point.

I chose the word Brave for my 2014 theme word to inspire me to act even if I was afraid, and to share even if I was scared. I was a little scared to do this piece, but brave is being scared and doing it anyway.

My goal this year is to let my words be anything but empty. And maybe a bit more concise. WordPress.com will help me accomplish that. I’m excited, 2014 is going to be a great year! Let’s get running.

Thank you, Christy!


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  1. awordofsubstance

    I’m so glad you started this blog. Addiction is such a little known topic.

  2. N℮üґ☼N☮☂℮ṧ

    “Can I just go on the record here and say that the WordPress community freaking rocks? Seriously, they do.”

    I couldn’t agree more. Oh Christy, my eyes are welled up with tears of joy for you. I loved your interview. This was my favorite part:

    “…but I also didn’t want to stay stuck in that pain and grief either. At least writing about it, I was owning it. I was shining a light on the darkest corner of my skeleton closet and telling those demons, “you don’t control me anymore.”

    And a funny thing happened, once I took the power away from that shame and darkness, it slipped away on its own.”

    I’m so proud of you, Christina. Thank you for all you do in this community and beyond. Thank you for your friendship and for always having my back. You have my utmost respect and undying admiration. Another big thank you to Krista for inspiring you to be a better writer, and for spreading the scintillating light of your outer and inner beauty. You are a precious Gem. <3

    Love you,
    Victoria

  3. blogginggal1970

    Well done Christy! First for being sober and secondly for sharing your story with the world (bought a tear to my eye). You are a beautiful lady and I wish you much success for the future. Good luck with your new blogs.

  4. MamaMickTerry

    What a fantastic feature on a very special woman. Christy was the very first blogger I had the confidence to leave a reply for. From the beginning, she’s been engaging, encouraging, funny and inspirational. She led me to other sites, special people and talent from everywhere! She noted above: “Bloggers can feel needlessly isolated — all you have to do is say, “Hi, I like you.” And nine times out of ten, you have formed an instant connection.”
    So true! Poor Christy has let me follow her around like an over-excited puppy dog and I’m so blessed to have found her. Words, thoughts and seriousness aside–in addition to our pooches and running, the coolest thing we share is our love for sugar. Should there ever be a zombie apocalypse, you’ll find us hovered in the corner with a stash of Duncan Hines frosting cans…and jelly beans :-)

  5. Bore Head

    Congratulations on your sobriety. The odds were not in your favor! It’s interesting that this was one of the tools to help you succeed. Blogging can be time consuming, and idle time is dangerous time for some.

  6. carolynrae1

    Good for you, Christy. Keep up the good fight and enjoy life again. I enjoyed reading your blog. Carolyn Rae Williamson

  7. El Guapo

    I’m torn between wanting to stand and applaud while grinning, and wanting to stand and applaud while singing Journey.
    So just imagine me doing both, and rock on! ;)

  8. Deli Lanoux, Ed.D.

    You wrote, “As I blogged and met other bloggers with similar backgrounds, I started feeling more comfortable sharing with others.”

    What I love about blogging at WordPress is the community building. Regardless of the size of my following, I know I have support… from readers, from tech support, from unexpected others. I’m in good company! Um. Make that terrific company! And, if I’m having a really restless late night ’cause I can’t sleep, I accept the gift to read the wonderful, intriguing, inspirational, fun blogs on WP; laugh; feel good; and smile.

    So good for you doing so well! You’ve certainly set up residence at the right address! You’re never alone, and there’s always someone to share with!

  9. Linda Marten, MSW

    Thank you, Christy. I appreciate your courageous honesty. In fact, you inspire me to start another blog about the Alanon side of the story for friends and family of the addict. People tell me to write a book, but a blog feels less overwhelming and possible and can help others more quickly too. Glad I read your blog today, thanks to WordPress.

  10. Lisa Neumann

    Poignant as always. Christy, you wear sobriety, rather life, well. Your ability to articulate what we so often feel is one of your blessings. Thank you for making my life better. Thank you for being more and more yourself. Looking forward to the ever evolving Christy.

  11. Natasha

    I am a new blogger and absolutely love writing. I’ve got to tell you the inspiration I feel while reading your heartwarming truly honest blogs is amazing. like you said, “This sounds just like me, or also I can relate to this.” Well that is me, I am a recovering addict and sober. I just want you to know your ninety percent of my inspiration. I will love to keep in touch and do give any pointers on my blogs. Thanks. My name is Sharon Driver and you are truly amazing with all the wonderful insight to others whom have issues as me!

  12. tchistorygal

    Great post. You have an amazing story. Blogging does a lot to change us. Guapo is one of my favs, too! :)

  13. michealdebarra

    Good on ya woman!

  14. robertflipper66

    Hi, I know how hard it is. I’ve been sober for 31 months now in the real world, as you are too. One day at a time.

  15. theclocktowersunset

    Christy, you are great. I love your openness and compassion. Brave is definitely the word to describe you, among many others as well. Finding you and your blog has brought inspiration to my life and I’m glad we met. Don’t stop believin’! :) :)

  16. M T McGuire

    This.

    “…but I also didn’t want to stay stuck in that pain and grief either. At least writing about it, I was owning it. I was shining a light on the darkest corner of my skeleton closet and telling those demons, “you don’t control me anymore.”

    And a funny thing happened, once I took the power away from that shame and darkness, it slipped away on its own.”

    There was someone who I wish I could have said this to. I failed to unlock the secret or read the signs. But that anyone has come out of addiction the other side, to say this… I’ll take that.

    God bless, well done and good luck.

    Cheers

    MTM

  17. carrythemessage

    Wonderful to see you get the spotlight Christy. Well deserved. You’re more than just a “sober blogger.” You’re a life monster and an inspiration to so many. You have a way with connecting to so many people with so few words — a majestic shining ability that comes from an inner depth that comes from being immaculately centered and comfortable in your own skin. The amount of people you touch is something that you will never know, and even the comments here are testaments to how far your reach goes. There is a quiet strength in your work, which only gets better and better as time goes on. There is no limit to your work and your own changing internal landscape.
    Seeing you here brings me joy, knowing that so many more get a chance to be inspired by your shares of hope, strength and experience. Awesome.

    Paul

  18. The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap

    Bravo Christy!

  19. Blog Woman!!!

    Very proud, and pleased for you Christy – for the road you’ve chosen, and for this recognition of well done. I am always amazed at who providence brings across my path, for better or not, and you are so much the better. Cheers to you girl.

  20. angelsurvivalfood

    I like the way you are slaying your dragons. Keep up that good work and keep your mind ever present.

  21. dennyjump

    Hi Krista – Just a great article and a really great Blog. You inspired me to respond and that’s a good thing for sure :-) I stopped drinking (no don’t worry, I am NOT trying to turn this into an online AA thing) I stopped drinking in 1992 on Christmas Day. The ultimatum came from my wife following a Christmas eve where I had collapsed numerous times, all over the house, made my daughter cry, caused my son to want to hide and most importantly, totally ruined my wife’s life once again. If it had not been for her and the ultimatum I was given — I would VERY likely be dead in a gutter somewhere. So what I am saying is that there are things in our life that cause or help us to have that moment where we decide that we better either go one direcion or face the unknown misery by going in another. Your blog post made (I mean “made” in a good way :-) me think about all that stuff and thank God my wife and I are still married after 45 years…hasn’t been always easy, but at least that crappy existence dependancy is gone..I now am dependent on chocolate and photography and my beautiful wife. Sorry, I tend to jabber on forever..really a great blog post Krista! Denny Jump

  22. John Griffiths

    My wife died in my arms from the effects of alcohol. If you saw what it did to her you would never again touch the stuff.

  23. spectrum355

    Just wanted to congratulate you on your strength and courage in sharing your story and continuing on your sober and running path!

  24. dave459

    Great read and gets you thinking. Thanks for sharing.

  25. kellycox33

    How awesome for you!! I have experienced addiction very often in my life often as an enabler which is pretty much an addiction itself. I’m so happy for you keep up the good fight

  26. dwh3

    Good on ya! It’s a long road and you’ve got this far and I wish you well on your journey, clear of the shackles of alcoholism. Both my father and my partner are alcoholics and I’ve tried in many different ways to help them break free of it, encouraged them to get treatment and go to AA etc….but alas they do not wish to be helped after all this time and I find I’m less and less able to help them and it’s exhausting dealing with it in double! I feel they are both hopeless cases…and I’ve ran out of steam, but YOU are an inspiration. Well done! :)

  27. Rose's Remedies

    Good for you, I’m just starting out and I find it difficult to write it out there. Should I just keep a disclosed journal and keep things to myself?

  28. C.K. Hope

    I love this feature, it captures who you are perfectly, and you my friend are a beautiful, brave, and caring person. I’m proud of you Christy, for everything you have already done and everything I know you will. And I am grateful to the wonderful world of WordPress for giving me the opportunity to know you and become part of this journey with you.

  29. machinegunmama

    Wow! I am just starting a blog and have really had a hard time deciding if it would be appropriate or even slightly acceptable to mention my struggle with addiction. I have been stuck in research mode for a few years with my blog because I can’t seem to separate my mental illness/addict “me,” from the super-frugal-mom/seamstress/crafty etc., etc., me. How could I connect with an audience if I couldn’t be honest? Exactly!
    So, I find today to be a most blessed day because WordPress introduced us…..😄……thank you for giving me a new lease on blogging.

  30. f1r3fly3s

    What an amazing gift you have Christy! Your honesty and courage just shine through beautifully. I think “Brave” is a truly fitting word for the next leg of your next journey. Good on you!

  31. thedealcutters

    Kudos Christy!! I am proud of you :-) Unfortunately, I am all too familiar with addiction of all kinds. I come from Baby Boomer parents who thought that smoking, doing drugs and drinking around us was ok. My mother has been free of all addictions for over 10 yrs. Unfortunately, my father passed on 1/16/2010, still a crack addict and alcoholic.

    I last spoke to him on 1/15/2010, when I called my grandmother to wish her Happy Birthday, and he answered the phone. I remember thinking “it’s never too late.” (for him to get clean). Unfortunately, the next morning he was rushed to the hospital and died from diabetes-related heart failure..

    I, for a brief period of time, struggled with alcoholism. I found a greater purpose in life than myself… my son Andre. My sister struggled with alcoholism for quite a bit longer, a few years, but she is in recovery. We have addiction in our family in every direction we look. Fortunately, although we ourselves weren’t “worth” getting clean, our kids were.

    As usual, I stumble upon great blogs like yours by accident. Lol I’m still learning how to navigate WordPress, so I’ve subscribed to your blog so I can stay connected.

    Thank you for being so open and continued success in your sober journey.

  32. Business Connexion

    Oh, it is quite a relief to know that whatever is happening, you are not alone

  33. gmaj1939

    I am so glad to wake up today and read this blog. Thank you. I will continue to follow you to become more inspired with your honesty and writing talent.

  34. Titanimom

    What a wonderful and raw conversation you have started. Thank you for having the courage to share. it is a gift that not all possess. I don’t think there is a person out there who doesn’t know SOMEONE who struggles with these demons or has found a way to overcome them. By shedding the light into the darkness you are making it not so scary for others.

  35. Rutabaga the Mercenary Researcher

    Christy – I cannot tell you how proud I am of you! You are an amazing person with a beautiful message that you carry that inspires others – you are brutally honest about dealing with addition and yet you maintain a gentle understanding for what others are feeling. And you have some kickass good taste in music. :) I’m am glad we have met over WordPress – you are right -it is a an amazing community of people. Keep writing and moving forward ~ (Ironically, I’m listening to The Clash “I’m Not Down” right at this moment).

    I’ve been beat up, I’ve been thrown
    Out but I’m not down, I’m not down
    I’ve been shown up, but I’ve grown up
    And I’m not down, I’m not down

    On my own I faced a gang of jeering in strange streets
    When my nerves were pumping and I
    Fought my fear in, I did not run
    I was not done

    And I have lived that kind of day
    When none of your sorrows will go away
    It goes down and down and hit the floor
    Down and down and down some more
    Depression
    But I know there’ll be some way
    When I can swing everything back my way
    Like skyscrapers rising up
    Floor by floor, I’m not giving up

  36. Daile

    This is all kinds of awesome. Christy, you are amazing, inspiring and such a great support as a blogger. I feel so lucky to have connected with you as I really value your blogs. This was a fantastic interview and I hope lots of bloggers read it and find hope and inspiration in your journey and your words. Congratulations on being so brave.

  37. The Bumble Files

    This is awesome, Christy! I’m so very proud of you and all you have accomplished. I didn’t know you started a new blog. I will be by to check it out. Great interview. You didn’t seem scared at all!

  38. marydpierce

    What’s in a blog name? Just the whole reason I clicked on your blog in the first place. I was intrigued by the name. The first thing it made me think of was the Jackson Brown song, and I was curious. I kept going back because your writing is honest and true and beautiful. And always illuminating.

    Everything you do is brave, Christy. Getting sober, sharing your truth, opening yourself up to strangers. Hands down, the best thing I did in 2013 was click on the link to Running On Sober. I’m chalking it up to intuition.

    Great interview.

  39. Liz

    Congratulations Christy – so glad to see this interview – well-deserved. You are an inspiration, x

  40. melvanilla

    Christy this is fantastic. enjoyed reading your blog and found it inspiring, dealing with addiction is a discipline issue and you are doing it! well done :-)

  41. parishkathy

    Christy, I am going to share your blog with my daughter, who has battled alcoholism and severe depression. Right now actively in recovery. You have my prayers and support and admiration. Hang in there!

  42. byebyebeer

    A wonderful write up on a beautiful soul who has helped me more than I can describe. Thank you for sharing Christy with so many.

  43. Madame Weebles

    Just more confirmation to me that Christy is a tough, sensitive, wonderful broad and I’m glad to call her my friend.

  44. proudlylocal

    I’m proud of you, you’re an inspiration. My problem has always been over-spending and being overly generous. I have reached rock-bottom and am building a new-normal me. Words have always been very important to me as well.21stcbradybunch

  45. dlgarrett2014

    After being drunk for twenty years and now sober for twelve, Christy you made my heart sing and my eyes tear. Well done, young lady! _dan garrett

  46. brookville71

    Christy, yours is the first blog I read after finding Word Press earlier today. I am a recovering nicotine addict, (using the 12 Steps) for my recovery. Also I have serious kidney disease which is leading to being on dialysis. Your blog is awesome and I am so glad to have found it. Thanks for your honest sharing.
    Tess

  47. Art Mowle

    Wow, like all of us a great story. I love your blog, interesting and entertaining. Keep up the good work. :)

  48. Me

    Well done Christy. I’ve been following your blog for a while. I’m so pleased your incredible ways of self-expression regarding a difficult topics are being recognised. Well done you x

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